Reflection

It's nice to reflect on the past and see where you are in life.   I did some refection recently because on 12/12/2017, was my 27th wedding anniversary.  My spouse and I are no longer living together and haven't in a while.  The paperwork hasn't been submitted, so legally we are still married by law and in the eyes of God. 

I could have viewed that day as a sad moment because my dreams did not manifest like I may have liked.  However, I made a conscious chose to reflect on all the wonderful memories we made as a family. I have so many more memories of happy times than not.  I haven't spoken to my spouse in some time, but I would hope and pray that today and every day, he would view our lives together as good.  

Life really is about the choses we make for ourselves.  Something unexpected can happen in our lives and we can go with the flow or we can try to swim upstream.  At this stage in my life, I prefer to go with the flow, and try to have as much fun as I possibly can.